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RE-WILDING RELATIONSHIPS
Modern Relationship Therapy, Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy & Coaching for people who want more secure attachment, better listening & communication, and more satisfying connection, intimacy & sex
WHERE RELATIONSHIPS, POWER & SEX COLLIDE.
I empower Couples & Individuals with
balancing power dynamics, emotional & co-regulation,
healing relational wounds, move towards SECURE attachment,
conflict resolution, and re-storing connected intimacy & sex
along with erotic recovery/discovery so you can live a life of
RELATIONALITY.
Grow resilient, authentic connections in a world where
technology can’t replace human attunement.
Therapy Formats Available:
Weekly, bi-weekly, monthly & specialized, integrative
Relationship/Sex Therapy & Intensives
Virtual/Online therapy available in Texas & Colorado
In-person available in Lubbock, TX
Relationship & Sex Coaching available in United States
At RE-WILDING RELATIONSHIPS, I integrate attachment theory, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Sex therapy to help individuals and couples create deeper, healthier, and more connected relationships.
Through evidence-based relational, talk and somatic approaches, clients develop a greater understanding of attachment patterns, emotional connection, nervous system regulation, intimacy, desire, listening, communication, sexuality, and the dynamics that shape modern relationships.
My work supports individuals and couples in building more secure, authentic, and fulfilling emotional and erotic connections.
Whether you’re wanting to learn how to regulate your emotions, break stuck patterns of communication & behaviors, navigate sexual disconnection, heal from infidelity, rebuilding emotional intimacy & the eroticism in your relationship, or simply wanting to feel closer again, I provide evidence-based Relationship & Sex therapy for Individuals, Couples, Adult Families and Teens 16+ designed to restore safety, passion, and connection.
My integrative approach is safe, non-judgemental,
ALL inclusive, sex-positive, empathetic, direct, transparent & confronting —rooted in the belief that relationships thrive when we return to homeostasis, radical honesty, authenticity, curiosity, and attunement.
SERVICES
Integrative Relationship/Sex Therapy
Psychotherapy
Relational Trauma Therapy
Relationship Therapy
Sex Therapy
Couples/Sex Therapy
Adult Family Therapy
Therapy for Therapists
Therapy for creatives, content creators and C++
Teens 18+
Coaching & Consultation
Relationship Coaching
Sex Coaching
Consultation for Therapists
Consultation for Business Relationships
INTEGRATIVE RELATIONSHIP THERAPY
Attachment
Emotional Regulation / Co-regulation
Communication
IRT (Imago Relationship Therapy
Specialties
High Conflict Couples
Dual Career Couples
C++ / Attorney, Doctor & Engineer Couples
High Profile Individuals & Couples
Monogamy Issues
Consensual Non-monogamy Issues
BOTH sides of Infidelity
Out of Control Sexual Behavior/"Sex addiction"
Erotic Recovery in Long-term relationships
Pre-marital Counseling
Discernment Counseling - Brink of Divorce
Divorce
Dating
Break-ups / Conscious Uncoupling
Co-parenting relationships
When 1 or more has ADHD
Deconstruction from "purity culture"
Non-Monogamy - Swingers,Cuckolding, Hotwifing, Stags, Vixens & Partner-Sharing
BDSM, Kink & Fetish
Working w/ Therapists
Musicians, Creatives & Adult Content Creators
LGBTQIA+ Affiming (All inclusive!)
INTEGRATIVE
SEX THERAPY
Communication & Sex
Religious Trauma/Shame & Sex
Desire Discrepancy
Erotic / Kink Discrepancies
Low Libido/No Libido
Erectile Dysfunction
Pre-mature Ejaculation
Painful Sex
Nurturing the Erotic part of the Relationship
Erotic Recovery After Infidelity
Erotic Discovery in Long Term Relationships
Conscious Kink, Tantra & BDSM
Erotic Blueprints
Pleasure Constellation Maps
ADHD & Sex/Intimacy
Out of Control Sexual Behavior / "Sex Addiction"
Out of Control Porn/AI Porn Use
*** I work collaboratively with other providers to offer collaborative care (OBGYNs, Urologists, Psychiatrists, PCPs, Pelvic Floor therapists, sexual surrogates, sexological bodyworkers, etc.)
Attachment therapy
ADHD
Relationship Therapy
Sex Therapy
Couples/Sex Therapy
Teens 16+
Erotic Blueprints
Erotic Discovery
Kink/BDSM/Tantra
Imago Relationship Therapy
Relational Life Therapy
Infidelity & Erotic Recovery
On the Brink of Divorce
WHY CHOOSE RE-WILDING RELATIONSHIPS
A Holistic, Integrative Approach to Personal and Relational Well-being
At RE-WILDING RELATIONSHIPS, we utilize an integrative, holistic and innovative method to address the complexities of human connections and issues pertaining to sex & relationships.
My unique journey of life experiences, relationships, integrative education, training, life and experiential practices offers a transformative journey towards profound self-discovery, relational healing and learning new skills.
Deep Work, Real Support...
Take the Next STEP & Get Started!
• A follow-up email/text 24 hours after your
Free 15 min consult
• Decide if we are a good fit & let Malia know you would like to GET STARTED
• Your Informed Consent & Good Faith Estimate will be emailed for you to fill out & submit
• Schedule your Intake appt
• Schedule your next appt at the end of every session
Online Store
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ENDORSEMENTS & TESTIMONIALS
Organizations I work with
RE-WILDING RELATIONSHIPS encourages diversity in practice. I support a wide range of populations including adult entertainers, content creators and musicians.
In addition, I serve as a Member-At-Large with West Texas Counseling Association.
WEST TEXAS
COUNSELING ASSOCIATION
Remembering
Cheyenne ❤️
At Re-Wilding Relationships, we focus on breaking unhealthy relationship patterns to foster strong, respectful, regulated, loving connections.
Remembering Cheyenne, we emphasize the importance of healthy relationships in preventing domestic violence, physical, sexual, financial and internal boundary violations. Cheyenne was murdered by her husband and then he committed suicide.
Don't let this happen to YOU!
If you or someone who is stuck in an unhealthy relationship, please reach out or contact a safe house in your city.
There is help & support.
Be the change. STOP the cycle of abuse.
So you don't lose the people you love.
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National Domestic Violence Hotline — 24/7 confidential help, plus a local provider directory.
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DomesticShelters.org — searchable directory covering about 3,000 shelters, programs, and hotlines across the U.S.
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WomensLaw “Advocates and Shelters" — state-by-state listings of shelters, local programs, and statewide resources.
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NNEDV State and Territorial Coalitions — official coalition directory for all 50 states plus D.C. and U.S. territories, which can connect you to local shelter networks.
If you need help right now in the U.S.:
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Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for the National Domestic Violence Hotline. It operates 24/7/365 and can help connect someone to local shelter, safety planning, legal advocacy, and other services.
If you’re looking in Texas, these are solid starting points:
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Texas Council on Family Violence survivor resources and service directory.
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Texas HHS Family Violence Program resources.
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Women’s Protective Services of Lubbock is one verified local domestic violence service in Lubbock.
